Scrolling through long lists with ScrollView and LazyVstack

What is the correct way to implement scrolling in a looong list that uses ScrollView and LazyVstack

Imagine I have some api that returns a longs list of comments with replies

The basic usecase is to scroll to the bottom(to the last comment) Most of the time this works fine

But, imagine some of the comments have many replies like 35 or more (or even 300)

User expands replies for the first post, then presses scroll to bottom. The scrollbar reaches the bottom and I see the blank screen. Sometimes the scrollbar may jump for a while before lazyvstack finishes loading or until I manually scroll up a bit or all the way up and down

What should I do in this case? Is this the swiftui performance problem that has no cure?

Abstract example:

ScrollViewReader { proxy in
    ScrollView {
        LazyVStack {
            ForEach(comments) { comment in
                CommentView(comment: comment)
                    .id("comment-\(comment.id)")
            }
        }
    }
}

struct CommentView: View {
    let comment: Comment
    @State var isExpanded = false

    var body: some View {
        VStack {
            Text(comment.text)

            if isExpanded {
                RepliesView(replies: comment.replies) // 35-300+ replies
            }
        }
    }
}
...

scroll

proxy.scrollTo("comment-\(lastComment.id)", anchor: .bottom)