I develop a third-party network filesystem for the Mac. I've noticed that there are certain Finder behaviors that we don't (perhaps can't) have that built-in networked filesystems do have. For instance, when a folder from an SMB share is added to the Finder sidebar as a favorite, clicking on that favorite will automatically mount the share if it is not already mounted. There is also a "Shared" section of the Finder sidebar. Integrating our filesystem into this section would be ideal, but I imagine that is much less likely than the first example.
I'm wondering if these behaviors come from particular VFS attributes set by a filesystem or are just special magic that Apple reserves for its own filesystem implementations.
You can get this level of integration. I have it with my network filesystem. You need to implement a NetFSPlugin to do so. Take a look at the webdav source on http://opensource.apple.com for an example of a NetFSPlugin.