So I followed the instructions for debugging simultaneously in the simulators
Building, Running, and Debugging Your New App
When you create a Watch app target for watchOS 2, Xcode automatically creates the necessary build schemes to run and debug each of your app’s interfaces in the simulator. Xcode provides separate simulators for Apple Watch and iOS devices so that you can debug your Watch app and iOS app at the same time. When you build and run your Watch app, Xcode automatically launches both simulators but only begins a debugging session for your Watch app.
To debug your iPhone app at the same time as your Watch app
Build and run your Watch app.
Select a build scheme for your iPhone app.
Click Run to run your iPhone app.
Xcode launches your iPhone app in the simulator and adds it to the debugging pane.
I've also reset my Mac, reset the simulators, cleaned out the dervied data and other temp files related to xcode, and I keep getting the same thing over and over again.
I run my watch app, it opens in the simulator. I select the scheme for my ios app, run it, and every time I get this
error failed to attach to process ID XXXX
I can debug one at a time.... the watch app or the phone app, but that is really inefficient...
am I the only one with this issue?