Why does Xcode 11.6 stop responding when installing on Mac iOS

Xcode stops responding on Mac iOS when updating via App Updates. It happens most of the time but this time it has taken 3 days and still no response. I'm sure someone will ask if I have enough memory or disk space and the answer is yes to both questions. Also I have closed out Xcode and it's corresponding projects, as well as any simulators. When I go to launch apps the progress shows that I am at 1.44GB out of 1.44GB. This indicates to me that the program has locked up somewhere and there is not much else I can do about it. With the numerous reboots Mac iOS is beginning to feel a lot like Windows, however at least in windows I get some kind of error message that indicates what the problem could be. Mac OS is simply hanging up with no error(I guess hoping I will figure it out). If there is no way to move forward i.e. the update is not compatible with my system, then I should be able to revert back to the previous version that worked right? Not working as well. I am completely frustrated with these 'update experimental gauntlets'. I am a nobody but there are many nobody's like me and at some point Apple will have to respond with a solution.