lldb-rpc-server 'hangs' MacOS app won't start with debugger attached

iMac 2017, latest Catalina, Xcode 11.7 and 12.3 same symptoms.
  1. ) can not attach a debugger to running app, Xcode crash or error

  2. ) starting app from Xcocde in Debug build -> lldb-rpc-server freezes, app is not starting, killing the lldb-rpc-server process starts the app without debugger.

Any Ideas on how to solve this?
Stephan
First I was mislead about a possible entitlements/hardening conflict imposed by app store notification.
command tools I used to get more info:
stream log | fgrep debug
lldb <application>
yielded
error: QtDBus {0x0000000b}: invalid abbreviation code 1, please file a bug and attach the file at the start of this error message
then I removed the QtDBus framework, then lldb would continue but fail in the load step of cocoa plugin.
This was pointing to a Qt problem, I updated from Qt5.15.0 to Qt5.15.2 on this machine,
then the Qt apps could be debugged again with lldb

lldb-rpc-server 'hangs' MacOS app won't start with debugger attached
 
 
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