I am trying to download XCode apps from my Mac to my Apple Vision Pro for testing. I have tried following the instructions by going into Settings->General->Remote Devices on my Apple Vision Pro, but there my Mac does not show up as a possible connection. Per this page, I have made sure that both devices are connected to the same WiFi network, updated my Mac to Sonoma, and updated my AVP to the latest OS, and everything else that it asks for.
I am able to mirror my display from my Mac but downloading apps from XCode does not work. I have also looked to enable Developer Mode by going to Settings -> Privacy & Security -> Enable Developer Mode, but there is no option for enabling developer mode here.
Per this forum, my best guess is that it is a Bonjour Protocol compatibility issue since both devices are on university wifi (WPA2), but I also tried connecting both over a hotspot which also did not work.