Difficult to use XCode with Apple Watch

Trying to develop a little Watch app in Swift, and it's been kind of a miserable experience. I constantly get transport errors trying to connect to my watch. I've tried the trick of putting the Mac and the watch on my iPhone hotspot instead of just on the same WiFi network, but I am not sure that actually helps. I can run maybe once or twice, and then the transport error happens and it's very hard to get XCode to recognize the watch again. Also, when it DOES connect, it seems that XCode almost always loses the debugging connection (I just continue, and it IS actually running on the Watch at that point, but no debugger).

Difficult to use XCode with Apple Watch
 
 
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