What are the fees to of a developer account? What are the fees to get an app uploaded to the app store?

USD$99 per year.

No other direct fees for submitting apps to the store, but there is a basic split on sales revenue 70% to the dev, 30% to Apple.

See the 'Programs' link above for details.

Is there a list of all the fees I can look at somewhere on the website?

I was told apple was charging extra for the review process because they were getting stricter. Is this true?

> list of all the fees I can look at

As I said, there is only one fee. See Choosing A Program

>Is this true?

No. You were misinformed. The only cost to you that involves the review process is your time.