You have two profiles on here, then? So who's gaslighting who?
You have highlighted some domains listed within the output of swcutil, and assumed some nefarious folks are adding thing s to your private device. Where's the proof?
What's wrong with *.events.shazam.apple.com? Apple owns Shazam.
What's wrong with a service forcom.apple.FaceTimeLinkTrampoline using the domain facetime.apple.com?
As I said before, you are simply misunderstanding things.
If you think otherwise, why not call Apple? Why not go into a store and ask them to check your phone and see what's going on?
Or, how about asking another iPhone user to show you their swcutil output and see whether the output of the logs matches? If it does, go to ten more users, then a hundred, then a thousand. If such large numbers of people are experiencing this 'hack' into their devices then Apple surely has an issue on its hands... But right now, you are misunderstanding the output of a command, that's all.