2 iPhones connected to mac, XCode doesnt recognize them

Hello together.

Since a few weeks I have the problem, that both of my iPhones (iPhone 15 with iOS 26.4.1 and an iPhone Xs with iOS 18.7.4) are NOT recognized by xcode, but are visible in Mac Finder

this is what xcode shows:

When I click on that I see this:

and in finder:

I tried everyhting

I re-installed XCode 5 times and deleted ALL XCode folders manually

I restarted all devices

and today I completely reinstalled my mac

My Macbook has iOS 26.4.1 as well and XCode is freshly installed from App Store

UPDATE:

I created a second user profile and with this it works perfectly fine, like wtf?

2 iPhones connected to mac, XCode doesnt recognize them
 
 
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