Overriding app's library reference path for the particular library

Hello. (hold for a moment, I'll get to the point) I'm developing addon for Blender and I'm trying to make it work on MacOS m1 too. I'm using hppfcl library for the addon and whenever I'm trying to import it from python I get the error below.

Error: Python: Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "<string>", line 1, in <module>
  File "/Users/m1/Library/Application Support/Blender/3.6/scripts/addons/blenderbim/libs/site/packages/hppfcl/__init__.py", line 34, in <module>
    from .hppfcl import *

ImportError: dlopen(/Users/m1/Library/Application Support/Blender/3.6/scripts/addons/blenderbim/libs/site/packages/hppfcl/hppfcl.cpython-310-darwin.so, 0x0002): Symbol not found: __ZN5boost6python15instance_holder8allocateEP7_objectmm
  Referenced from: /Users/m1/Library/Application Support/Blender/3.6/scripts/addons/blenderbim/libs/site/packages/hppfcl/hppfcl.cpython-310-darwin.so
  Expected in: /Applications/Blender.app/Contents/Resources/lib/libboost_python310.dylib

The error is caused by the fact that /Applications/Blender.app/Contents/Resources/lib/libboost_python310.dylib is incompatible with hppfcl. I have compatible version in /Users/m1/Library/Application Support/Blender/3.6/scripts/addons/blenderbim/libs/libboost_python310.dylib.

❓Mine question is how to make scripts/addons/blenderbim/libs/libboost_python310.dylib either main library to be loaded for hppfcl or for the entire Blender (this will work too)?

What I've tried and researched:

1. If I check hppfcl library with otool -l hppfcl.cpython-310-darwin.so it's referring to the correct library that should be compatible given that /scripts/addons/blenderbim/libs/site/packages/hppfcl/../../../libboost_python310.dylib => /scripts/addons/blenderbim/libs/libboost_python310.dylib.

Load command 20
          cmd LC_RPATH
      cmdsize 40
         path @loader_path/../../../ (offset 12)

1. If i run otool -l /Applications/Blender.app/Contents/MacOS/Blender I see why error is referring to /Resources/lib/libboost_python310.dylib. So it seems that hppfcl @loader_path is overriden by Blender's @loader_path.

Load command 65
          cmd LC_RPATH
      cmdsize 48
         path @loader_path/../Resources/lib (offset 12)

1. I tried to use export DYLD_LIBRARY_PATH="/Users/m1/Library/Application Support/Blender/3.6/scripts/addons/blenderbim/libs/:$DYLD_LIBRARY_PATH" (and same thing with DYLD_FALLBACK_LIBRARY_PATH) before starting Blender which lead to no success - DYLD_LIBRARY_PATH is purged when I start Blender (deduced it by checking os.environ from python). I guess it's because Blender is protected process and the only way around it so either rebuild with different build settings or to disable system integrity protection (both are very bad options for the addon).